Taurus Soul Mate

By: James Burgess

Soul Mate Test: NO is about boundaries and identification.
You have to know who you are if you want to find someone to be perfect for you. As a rule many of us have a real and important need to become much less confused about things we choose to have in our lives. This applies to all things, from what is useful to dealing with painful feelings. The problem is to achieve that clarity and then to uncover the answers to whatever problems we have to deal with. The 7 Words System offers a straightforward innate routine that makes it possible for us to reach a much better sense of what it is that we are looking for. It opens with the word No. In the beginning we have to describe accurately what we do not want what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.
Soul Mate Test: HELLO is about openness and exchange.
Look around and see what's happening, to you, to others...learn what works for others and think about it carefully. The second stage links with the word Hello. We may well have to open up to new potential if we have a desire to increase our choice of keys to puzzles and challenges. You agree? To get something fresh we will need to extend our sphere of awareness and look where we have not formerly looked up until now. Original thoughts, new associates, new places and new things are all parts of giving reflection to something we have not up to that time been subjected to. We will want to trade old for new, that we have something to offer in reasonable return for what are trying to get.
Soul Mate Test: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.
How well are you expressing your appreciation? Can you find qualities to admire in people you meet; the best qualities are usually deeper, often hidden. Among all available opportunities, some are more desirable than others and we feel we want to treat them as having a greater meaning, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Frequently, we disregard the meaning of what we have, slide unconsciously into ingratitude and are likely to take things for granted. It's more than simply civility to let somebody see our appreciation for things we treasure; it has an important part to play in helping us to reach our targets. Psychologically we are magnetized to what we express appreciation for, and yet it's equally true to say that we are able to magnetize them to us too. We build up our pull when we say Thanks and therefore, when we do so, we smoothly bring things to us.
Soul Mate Test: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.
Are you willing to realize that after finding a soul mate life has changed and will be forever different. Are you willing to change? Goodbye is one of the seven primary words and relates to a procedure having four steps. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. What we are saying Goodbye to is a possible stage of change, which is to be understood in simple terms as unmitigated refusal of a possible path of action that previously we had been going towards and in future will not go in for. It is a turning point in our selection of possible outcomes. Goodbye is different from No because it implies that we have had connection already, which now needs to end contrasted with No's repudiation in the first place. Proper decisions cut the past away totally and that penetrating quality produces an open door that otherwise does not arise.
Soul Mate Test: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.
How do you cooperate to find harmony? You do have a vision of a successful partnership? The future reveals itself according to the habits of the past unless we take control of it and bend it to our wants. To do this calls for to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, particular and optimistic—and transformed into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is fairly unreal and the second is much more focused and conscious. For a dream to become real there must be help. Nothing can be achieved without acquiring the assistance of others - this takes aptitude, probably arguments, even stimulation. It is not always crucial to present something such as money or money's worth.
Soul Mate Test: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.
Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist? Sorry, the 6th primary word, is best seen as making good harm done whenever we've been insensitive or heedless to the circumstances of another. The best idea is to make sure we avoid the need to say it by being understanding earlier. Why? Well it's because anyone we upset may well act against us and diminish our likelihood of accomplishing what we intend, so it is obviously more wise to think about others as well as ourselves. This question is all about being responsible, having some feelings towards anyone we've upset and making recompense when we've slipped up. Then and only then will it ever be feasible to avoid or patch up bitterness and release the unending nastiness that otherwise would increase and rankle.
Soul Mate Test: YES is about accepting and surrender.
Sometimes unacceptable behaviour just has to be accepted. How tolerant are you? The final stage of our 7 Words technique is to do with acceptance; there are occasions when we simply have to accept what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be fine wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in actual reality we can't. We always need to tolerate what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for.

The greatest thing is to have an expectation that everything in the end turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when comprehended in the perspective of the longer term. Clearly it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! However hold your horses and you'll see that the unlooked-for episodes, the surprises and failures are actually the best bits veiled as adversity.

James Burgess 2008

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